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ScorpieScorp | Hi, Started a new job a few months ago, and this girl has been feeling threatened by me--DESPITE the fact I have done nothing to make her feel that way. She is trying to now make "nice" with me, but I just don't trust her now (long story, she is WAY insecure)... Can you see any light at the end of the tunnel (since we HAVE to work together and she is well established at the company)...(ignore all the Cupido stuff, it was still there from another reading I did with a co-worker who I am attracted to.. ) Help! Don't know her birth time...I'm on the outside..She's the first person on the aspects chart... |
Randall | Bump! |
ScorpieScorp | Yes, No? |
polkadotstars | Eek- Her Mars on your Moon :-/ |
llewsacm | Yeah, but it is in Libra so the coworker is concerned about equality/fairness. If she views any interactions in the workplace that are unjust, shes going to come out and say something about it. There should be some understanding of that nature with your moon there as well. Maybe she's trying to grab your attention somehow with the things she feels at unjust at the office. |
llewsacm | Sometimes she says things and then kicks herself for it. I mean she beats herself up for it, but no one else really understands why. She's hard on herself this way. |
ScorpieScorp | quote: Originally posted by llewsacm: Sometimes she says things and then kicks herself for it. I mean she beats herself up for it, but no one else really understands why. She's hard on herself this way.
What aspects show that? What else can you tell me about how to work with her best/ how she will react in general? |
llewsacm | Merc/saturn. Is she in a leadership position? If not, that's what she's probably after with her sun/pluto conj. Your mars may be irritating for her. |
ScorpieScorp | I have Mercury Sq Saturn...so what about that? |
llewsacm | Well, how do you think it influences you? I think that's a question you need to ask yourself. That would make your Saturn square her mercury as well so its worthwhile to explore how that natal square integrates into your daily life. |
ScorpieScorp | quote: Originally posted by llewsacm: Merc/saturn. Is she in a leadership position? If not, that's what she's probably after with her sun/pluto conj. Your mars may be irritating for her.
She's not, but has been there for a while and is doing quite well. But she seems to have a constant chip on her shoulder, extremely negative, always complaining. Wants people to think she's a big deal. I think I came in and shattered some glass--so she saw me as a threat but also a potential ally. Either way, I avoid her--I hear she is drama. But I see we have Pluto aspects--makes me wonder if this is fated and I have to deal with her. |